fact, it is most important for girls to keep a cool head in the process of
redeeming their predecessors. Counting down those cases where girls failed to
redeem, most of them are actually caused by emotional problems. It is easier
for girls to redeem their predecessors. So how to turn him on without being
1. How to turn him on without being obvious ：Learn to care about each other
process of love, girls are often the one who prefers to vent their emotions.
This also causes those emotions that are not usually vented to burst out at
that moment. Girls will feel much better when they say it; but most boys It’s
not the same. Most of them are bored in their hearts and don’t talk, even if
they argue, they can’t tell why. So when they broke up, the girls didn’t know
the reason for the breakup, and didn’t know why the other party broke up with
themselves. In fact, this matter is also easy to understand.
couple who broke up I met, they are very typical examples. The origin of their conflicts is because
the men and women have differences. Boys love to play games, while girls prefer
to go shopping; so the two often quarreled because of this big difference. But
the final outcome is a compromise.
first the girls felt that there was no problem, but as time went by, the boys
got tired. So, her boyfriend broke up. But the girls still don’t know the
reason for breaking up. In fact, it is very simple, that her wishes are
satisfied after the quarrel; but the boy is always the one to accommodate, she
does not know how to care about her boyfriend, only knows to let her boyfriend
care about herself. In love, if you want the other party to give a lot, then
you have to care about the other party to the same degree.
How to turn
him on without being obvious ：Find the root cause
of the breakup
fact, the man generally does not propose to break up. Even if some boys are
willing to take the cold and violent way to let the girls take the initiative
to break up, they are not willing to talk about the breakup by themselves. This
means that once they break up, it means that they have made up their minds. You
won’t be persuaded easily, because most of them have reached a peak in their
emotions at this time, and they will feel unbearable if they don’t break up
it is because you have a shortcoming in your life that has not been corrected
and it makes him feel very broken, or there is always a contradiction between
you that will be mentioned and reproduced repeatedly, or your excessive control
makes him feel that he has no freedom to think. To escape from you, these are
likely to make the other party break up.
at this time, what you have to do is not to oppose his opinion, because you
can’t control his opinion. Even if you are forced to die, he may stay with you,
but can you use this reason to tie him up for the rest of your life? Of course
it’s impossible. So if he wants to break up, then you have to agree generously,
even if you don’t want to. Then don’t rush to restore the other party. You have
to find the root cause of the problem between you, and then take this The
problem is solved, so that you can get back together again.
other person can associate with you, it means that he must like some of the
qualities in you; if you are worthless in his eyes, then you cannot associate;
so at this time, you have to put yourself in the things that he once liked. The
advantages are revealed. We all know that it is important to change and
promote, which can affect the direct direction of your relationship. For
example, you can recall what you were like when you just dated and were in a
passionate relationship: maybe you are gentle, but after a long time you start
to lose your temper, or you like to be with your boyfriend at first Cultivate
interests together, such as visiting stores or traveling, but after a long
time, you feel impatient. You don’t want to engage in this, but just want to
stay at home.
factors may cause him to think that you don’t care about him anymore and
propose to break up. If this is the case, then you only need to show him the
previous you. You can show it in the chat, or Moments publishes the dynamics of
his life and makes him miss the way you first met in the past, then he will
definitely change his mind.
How to turn
him on without being obvious： Don’t touch his bottom line
as a person has a bottom line, if you keep touching his bottom line in order to
save a person, it is a very stupid behavior. Just like some boys are very
career-focused, if you call him to save him or call him during his working
hours and interrupt his work, then you have hit his bottom line. He will
definitely dislike you, so you must be fully prepared before you can save it.
Knowing what the other party hates and avoiding this approach is the most
you need to remember that if you really want to turn him on without
being obvious, you don’t have to do verbal effort. You have to really make
changes and actually solve the problem. If your changes are all pretends,
then he will notice one day. And you must have sincerity, and real changes will
make a person take the initiative to come back to you and spend a lifetime with