Last time, some of our college classmates had a dinner together and we talked about the topic of first love.
There is a male friend who is gentle, mature and stable. At that time, I asked him if he still loved his first love, and he said that he had never loved him. I said, do you still remember her face? He said that he only remembered her in high school. It may be because of drinking some wine, or it may have caused ripples in my heart. He began to tell his story.
He broke up with his first love because of distance. Because they were high school classmates, they started to associate after graduating from high school. During college, because of long-term long-distance relationships, the woman chose to break up.
Because since he broke up with his first love, he has not found a second girlfriend for nearly five years.
After breaking up, for a while, he will keep following her Weibo updates. There are more than 2,000 Weibo posts, all of which are read, comments and reposts are not overlooked. During that time, he was in pain and couldn’t get out of the shadow of losing her. But when I mentioned it that night, he was calm and calm. He sobbed and said, his first love is now married to other people and has a baby. Although there was a choking in his tone, he still sincerely said that he wished her well and happiness.
To answer this topic, from my personal point of view, I think a man will never forget the first person he has loved. “Not forgetting” here does not mean “not forgetting”, but knowing that this person has appeared in your life, and you can look at each other lightly and smile when you think about it one day or when you meet again.