What are some things you realized when you got mature?

1. Learn to forget the one you once loved

Sometimes, you choose to leave not because you are not deeply loved. But there are many reasons why you cannot go on, such as family situation, disagreement in personality, and different perspectives. If both of you are not possible to continue the relationship, you’d better leave directly. Because you are not the one to accompany each other in the rest of your life sooner or later.

2. Love relies on commonality and attraction.

If you want to meet a gentle person, then you must be gentle; if you want to meet a good person, then you must make yourself excellent.

3. Acknowledge you as an ordinary person.

You go to the junior high school in a small 18th- tier town, and you don’t need to work hard to get to the top of the class. You are a little proud and think you are smarter than others. Later, you went to high school in the city. And you found that this place was really masterful so that your grades could only linger in the middle. After going to college, you found that the people around you not only crushed you by grade points, but also had eighteen talents, such as piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, guitar, dance, and basketball.

You might be confused about why you are so different from others.

In fact, everyone is an ordinary person, but some people make more effort than others. Acknowledge your ordinariness, recognize your position, be neither humble nor overbearing, and work hard step by step, you will succeed.

3. You will eventually meet the one who deserves all your tenderness.

After all, human beings are social creatures. When you are alone and feel lonely, you only need to look forward the future. You will see that all the loneliness is only to help you meet another him or her.

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